It’s a question that comes up every now and then during the course of a mediumship reading. If we are always sending our thoughts and feelings toward our loved ones in spirit and hoping that they remain with us, are we holding them back? Are we keeping them from moving forward – as if we are somehow taking control of their spirit and forcing them to remain here without any will-power of their own?
When we watch mediums demonstrate, it can be easy to place the kudos for the information on them. There’s nothing wrong with being excited and congratulatory about the magnitude and intricacies of a message (especially if you’re the medium delivering it). However, it’s important to note: The medium is not the message.